Dating Gay Men: What NOT To Say!

With any form of dating, there are things that should not be said- especially on the first date or online before you even meet the person. I was checking out outpersonals.com, a great gay male hookup site, when I came across a lot of these conversation no-nos. It actually seems like gay men are more likely to say something that should be off limits.And worst of all, the men think they will actually have more success because of these comments. What are these terrible topics? The first one is money. Sure, we know that there are lots of gold digging gays out. The problem is that talking about money is going to attract these gold diggers or it will just make you seem like a shallow person.Instead of impressing your future gay fuck buddy with your salary, you are turning him off.The next biggest problem is bringing your gay baggage to the date. I chatted with gay men at outpersonals.com who immediately told me about their traumatizing coming out stories and family problems. This was even worse that those who bitched about their exes! Sure, I appreciate the intimacy but why not keep your baggage for the 10th date or so.