Cheating Saved Our Marriage

My husband and I are swingers now for the past two years. We started having troubles in our marriage a while back and I found out that he was cheating on me. After lots of expensive and time consuming counseling, it was pretty obvious that boredom was the cause of all our problems. I was also experiencing the same boredom but instead of cheating let it turn me into a super bitch (that really didn’t help our relationship then!). The idea of swinging first came up jokingly but neither of us laughed or rejected it. Next thing, we were looking online for discreet hookups and found the Married But Playing site. We each are very open now to having our own private affairs and realize what cheating means to our marriage. I really love this site because we can have our fun with other couples or partners and no one is judging us. My advice for cheaters is to talk to your spouse and find out what the problem is. Maybe then both of you can join us for fun instead of having to sneak around.