If you are new to ALT dating personals, it can seem a bit overwhelming at first. Here are some things that you should do to help you make the most of ALT:

1. Spend some time browsing profiles before you make your own. Note which personals get your attention and why.

2. Be as detailed as possible in your personal while still leaving some things to the imagination. You will want to be clear about what your interests are (dominance, bondage, spanking, etc) and your level of experience. If you aren’t sure what you are looking for in ALT dating, make sure that you say that.

3. Make the first move by contacting other members. Remember that your first email is your first impression. You want to be polite, tell a bit about yourself, and ask questions to initiate a response.

4. Take it slow at first. It takes a while for trust to build up in an ALT relationship, especially when bdsm is in question. Make sure that you are learning a person’s fetishes and not just thinking about your own.

5. Have fun! If you just enjoy the process of flirting and don’t expect anything from ALT personals, you will have a lot of success.

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