As a long time member at BDSM Sex Dates, my advice to new members is this: Go on a first date before you start you begin to play in the bedroom (dungeon, basement, etc). BDSM is all about respecting your partner. There is no way that you can help a slave go past his/her limits if you don’t know what those limits are! A slave must trust the master/mistress with both body and mind. Without these key factors, no BDSM sex dating will go smoothly. A lot of these factors can be resolved in fetish dating chat or by discussing experience in emails. However, it is still best not to rush things. You will find that sitting down for a dinner before getting out your bull whip will make your entire date go much smoother. Some people, especially those new to BDSM, need more time before they can advance beyond cuffs and spanking. Others are ready for extreme bondage right from the get go. However, you won’t know this until you meet your sex date. Just take it slow, like the gradual pushing of a slave’s limits, and you will find yourself in a great BDSM relationship.

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