When you first start contacting members in Bondage dating, it is easy to get carried away with the excitement of it all. Just because you are eager to indulge your fantasies with a person who seems like your dream match, don’t forget to follow the basic rules of bondage:

1. Don’t engage in any bondage activity the first time you meet. Instead, explain that you would just like to talk in person and find out more about his/her desires and level of experience. Rushing is a good way to get yourself in to a fix- and one that you might not like!

2. Take basic safety precautions! Before you go to someone’s house/dungeon for playtime, make sure that you give a friend the address of where you will be. Have your friend call you at a set time, about three hours after the start of the date. If you don’t answer, that friend should come over to see that everything is okay.

3. Follow the rules of bondage. Before you start your session, make sure that you have an agreed-upon safe word and a safe motion (in the event you are gagged). Also, check all equipment and use safe releases for all harnesses, ropes, etc.

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