I am a 29 year old woman and have been using Horny Matches for about a year now. I have some advice to new male members. First of all, men are always saying they don’t know what women want. Well, why don’t you ask? You’d be surprised at the responses that you will get in an email. Not only does this help you find a fuck buddy who you will be compatible with, but it also shows that you are a courteous person. I never hookup with a person who doesn’t show interest in my wants/needs. When it comes to the actual date, make sure that you are on your best behavior. I spend a lot of time getting ready to look my best and picking out sexy underwear. It would be nice of you to do the same. Okay, you can skip the sexy underwear but they should at least be clean (this is mandatory!). For the first discreet encounter, go somewhere public that both of you will be comfortable. However, you might want to avoid places where friends/family could turn up. When it comes to casual sex, just go with your instincts and don’t make a big deal of it. Then we will both get what we want.