Dating Diary Blog » ALT http://blog.ratingadultdating.com Just another WordPress weblog Mon, 06 Feb 2012 05:31:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 en hourly 1 5 Tips On How To Get Laid At ALT Personals http://blog.ratingadultdating.com/dating-tips/alt-3 http://blog.ratingadultdating.com/dating-tips/alt-3#comments Wed, 10 Feb 2010 13:08:33 +0000 admin http://blog.ratingadultdating.com/?p=786 If you are new to ALT dating personals, it can seem a bit overwhelming at first. Here are some things that you should do to help you make the most of ALT:
1. Spend some time browsing profiles before you make your own. Note which personals get your attention and why.
2. Be as detailed as possible in your personal while still leaving some things to the imagination. You will want to be clear about what your interests are (dominance, bondage, spanking, etc) and your level of experience. If you aren’t sure what you are looking for in ALT dating, make sure that you say that.
3. Make the first move by contacting other members. Remember that your first email is your first impression. You want to be polite, tell a bit about yourself, and ask questions to initiate a response.
4. Take it slow at first. It takes a while for trust to build up in an ALT relationship, especially when bdsm is in question. Make sure that you are learning a person’s fetishes and not just thinking about your own.
5. Have fun! If you just enjoy the process of flirting and don’t expect anything from ALT personals, you will have a lot of success.
]]> http://blog.ratingadultdating.com/dating-tips/alt-3/feed 0 Even In My Small Town, I Was Able To Meet Someone Through ALT Dating! http://blog.ratingadultdating.com/dating-experience-story/alt-2 http://blog.ratingadultdating.com/dating-experience-story/alt-2#comments Wed, 10 Feb 2010 13:02:21 +0000 admin http://blog.ratingadultdating.com/?p=780 I am from a small town and it is hard to meet people, especially if you are into alternative style relationships. I was even afraid to ask girlfriends if they’d want to experiment with bdsm because rumors would spread pretty quickly no doubt. Before I found out about ALT dating online, I was spending a lot of money on escorts and still not really finding the enjoyment that I craved. I didn’t actually expect to meet anyone in my area when I signed up for ALT dating personals. Actually, I don’t know what I expected to find. I was really shocked at how many people like me are all over the place and looking for the right fetish partner. I started chatting with a few women and had a really nice time just talking dirty about our fantasies and what we’d done and what we would like to try. That led to me meeting up with a very sexy woman who lives fairly close to me and shares the same interests. ALT dating is really so much better than those escorts because everyone is here because they have a passion for bdsm and are wishing to push their limits and try new things. ]]> http://blog.ratingadultdating.com/dating-experience-story/alt-2/feed 0 ALT Dating Is Fun And Free! http://blog.ratingadultdating.com/dating-tips/alt http://blog.ratingadultdating.com/dating-tips/alt#comments Wed, 10 Feb 2010 13:01:18 +0000 admin http://blog.ratingadultdating.com/?p=774 ALT dating isn’t really any different than other dating sites or from meeting someone in a bar. No matter what kind of dating, most people are looking for something very specific. If you want to get more responses to you personal at ALT dating, you need to be specific about what you are looking for. A lot of newbies to the site aren’t exactly sure what they are looking for: a long term relationship, a fling, sex chat, etc. However, they do know what led them to ALT dating in the first place. Maybe you tried bondage just a few times and want to explore it further or maybe you are an experienced dominatrix who wants a slave who can handle your bull whip. These details tell a lot about a member and get people’s attention. Even the most vague personals can get results but you are going to have to respond to 10x more mails and deal with rejection simply due to incompatibility. ALT dating makes it very easy to be detailed and thorough in your personal by asking you questions that you might overlook and even offering a “dating purity” test. Take advantage of all of these tools to help you meet the perfect ALT partner. ]]> http://blog.ratingadultdating.com/dating-tips/alt/feed 1